This is Ethan's mom, Michele.  I may have gotten upset at Ethan tonight for making a sassy comment.  "You don't give me everything I want!"  And he is right.  We definitely do not give him everything he wants.  I talked to him about kids and families that have nothing.  And here is where I told him to be proactive.  I asked him what he was going to do about it.  Our first idea was for Thanksgiving.  He is going to hand write a flyer and distribute it around our neighborhood.  He wants to earn or collect enough to give one family Thanksgiving dinner this year.  After that, we will see what our next goal is.  I am going to have him write down how it is going and how he feels on this site as we make progress.